Take A Breath- The Self-Reg Song by Raffi

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Stuart Shanker's 5 Steps of Self-Reg

More information can be found at 5 Steps of Self-Reg

7 Tips to Help Your Child Manage Stress

Like adults, kids also suffer from stress. Too many commitments, conflict in their families and problems with peers are all stressors that overwhelm children. According to research, a certain amount of stress is actually good for children. The 'Positive Stress' stimulates growth and challenges students to achieve their best. But when a child becomes over stressed by certain stressors (i.e., too much noise, too much light, sitting still for too long, the fabric of their clothes) they become unable to calmly and rationally solve problems and regulate their emotions. Dr. Shanker refers to this as 'Stress Behaviour' as opposed to 'Misbehaviour'. It is our job as parents and educators to try and identify the stressful events that are triggering this 'fight or flight' response. It is then, when a child can identify what is a stressor for them, that they can practice calming techniques and strategies to get them back into the Green Zone, where learning can take place. 

Below are a list of 7 Tips to help children manage stress:

1. Stop overscheduling
2. Make time for play
3. Make sleep a priority
4. Teach kids to listen to their bodies
5. Manage your own stress
6. Make mornings calmer
7.  Prepare your kids to deal with mistakes

More information can be found at 7 Tips

Dr. Stuart Shanker on Stress

Dr. Stuart Shanker is a Distinguished Research Professor of Philosophy and Psychology at York University. He is also CEO of The MEHRIT Center. The MEHRIT Center is focused on understanding children's behaviour through a more scientific method and suggesting tools and strategies to ameliorate their emotions. 

“TMC is laying the foundation for a paradigm-revolution built around the science of self-regulation. Every aspect of how we look at children will be transformed, as we shift from trying to manage or suppress, to understanding and ameliorating their problems in behavior, mood and thinking. We envisage a future in which every sector that engages with children and youth, and their families, are joined together in this way of thinking.” – Dr. Stuart Shanker

Dr. Stuart Shanker formed The MEHRIT Centre (TMC) in 2012.

Visit The MEHRIT Centre's website to find out more about Self-Regulation!

Self-Reg Website

What is Self-Regulation?

There is a growing awareness among developmental scientists that the better a child can self-regulate, the better she can rise to the challenge of mastering even more complex skills and concepts. In the simplest terms, self-regulation can be defined as the ability to stay calm and focused and alert, which often involves, but is not limited to self-control. The better a child can stay calmly focused and alert, the better he integrates the diverse information coming in from his different senses, assimilates it and sequences his thoughts and actions. For someone who thinks that self-regulation is just a matter of a child's getting in control of his negative emotions, there is very little difference between self-regulation and compliance. But unlike compliance, based on punishment, self-regulation nurtures the ability to cope with greater and greater challenges because it involves arousal states, emotions, behaviour, and - as the child grows older- thinking skills. 

Excerpt from Calm, Alert and Happy

The Zones of Regulation

This visual can be seen in many of our classrooms and Resource rooms. The images, words and colours help students to identify how they are feeling and talk about strategies they can use to get into the Green Zone (optimal for learning to take place)!